Thursday, July 8, 2010

Bun in the Oven

(So.... When does the morning sickness stop???)
8 weeks pregnant

Week 8 of Pregnancy

As your baby starts moving in the womb, morning sickness (which doesn't just strike in the morning) may have you moving to the bathroom.

Your Baby in Week 8 of Pregnancy

Your baby is growing at an amazing rate — about a millimeter every day — and now is the size of a large raspberry. Your little berry is looking a lot less reptilian (even though she has webbed fingers and toes, her tail is just about gone) and a lot more baby-like these days, as her lips, nose, eyelids, legs, and back continue to take shape. Her heart is beating at the incredible rate of 150 times per minute — about twice as fast as yours! And even though you can't yet feel it, she's now making spontaneous movements as she twitches her tiny trunk and limb buds.

Learn more about your baby and baby's growth this week.


Your Body in Week 8 of Pregnancy

While your raspberry-sized babe isn't exactly causing you to show yet, chances are your clothes are feeling a little tight around the tummy and you might need a bigger bra. You may also be feeling perpetually queasy. But take heart — your baby feels just fine even while you're hugging the bowl with morning sickness. Try to eat often, but only a little at a time. That should also help your body battle another stubborn woe coming your way soon:pregnancy heartburn. Most likely, you'll find relief as you move into your second trimester, but for now, try to focus on the positive: Morning sickness is usually a sign that your pregnancy is going well.

Learn more about your body this week and morning sickness.

Week 8 Pregnancy Tip: Eating Fruit During Pregnancy


Fruit is always your friend — but consider it your best friend while you're expecting. Not only does nature's sweetest bounty contain essential vitamins and other nutrients that are good for you and your baby, but it plays a starring role in keeping you regular (pass the prunes, please!). More sweet news: The right fruit can stand in for just about any vegetable you're shunning when pregnancy aversions and nausea may be keeping you from bellying up to the salad bar. (For instance, opt for dried apricots when you can't stomach broccoli.) A good rule of nutritional thumb when it comes to fruits (and veggies): Stronger colors spell better nutrition. But more often than not, it's what's inside that counts. So while a cantaloupe pales in comparison with a red apple on the outside, the inside tells a different story; the deeply hued flesh of the melon way outscores the white apple in vitamin and mineral content. Select your produce, then, by the color of its “inner” rainbow when shopping and you'll find nutrients worth their weight in gold.

Learn more about eating well in the first trimester.

Week 8 Pregnancy Symptoms


Fatigue: What’s making you so tired these days? Try everything! Pregnancy is hard work, and you should ask for help — from your partner, from your family, and from your friends. Having your partner (or a pal) lend a hand means you might have enough energy to go out for a walk (and then go to bed!).

Nausea and vomiting: Those queasy feelings may still be sticking around this week. Try eating foods with ginger (many studies show it works for reducing nausea and vomiting during pregnancy) — ginger cookies, real ginger ale, or ginger candies. And try taking your prenatal vitamin during dinner rather than on an empty stomach. The chewable kind might also make you feel less queasy.

Food cravings and aversions: Craving weird substances such as clay or laundry starch? Call your practitioner. These types of cravings are called pica and could be a sign of a nutritional deficiency, especially of iron.

Flatulence: Along with the bloating and constipation comes that other common scourge of pregnancy: flatulence (aka farting). The (aptly named) hormone relaxin, along with progesterone, is working to relax the muscles in your body, including those in your gastrointestinal tract. This causes food to move along more slowly, which leads to indigestion and gassiness. What can you do about it (except apologize to those around you)? Try to relax when you eat — tension can cause you to swallow air along with your food, which can form gas pockets in your belly.

Bloating: Those swell pregnancy hormones may cause you to swell as they slow down your metabolism. Try to drink lots of fluid and follow a healthy diet to avoid constipation, which only aggravates your bloated feeling.

Constipation: Fiber can be your BFF in the fight against those sluggish intestines, so add some fiber to every meal. But pace yourself if you’re not used to a fiber-rich diet or you’ll find yourself gassier than ever before: For instance, replace that white rice with brown and serve it along with your roasted chicken and veggies but don’t overload your system with a dish of brown rice, tofu, and broccoli.

Increased sense of smell: If your heightened sense of smell is making mealtime preparation unbearable, switch to foods that you don’t have to cook or, better yet, have your partner pitch in. If there’s a window in the kitchen, leave it open. Or just cook the foods you can stand to eat.

Increased vaginal discharge: Yet another bodily fluid introduced to you courtesy of estrogen — leukorrhea, a thin, milky vaginal discharge. (When estrogen increases blood flow to the pelvic area, it stimulates the body’s mucous membranes.) Leukorrhea protects the birth canal from infection by maintaining a healthy balance of bacteria, so don’t try to douche or wash it away.

Occasional headaches: All that exhaustion, stress, and hunger (or nausea) you’re experiencing (plus those pesky hormones) can make your head ache — literally. Some women get headaches more often during pregnancy, and others don’t. Make sure you’re getting enough rest to ward off fatigue-triggered headaches and keep eating to prevent your blood sugar from dropping and triggering them as well.

Occasional faintness or dizziness: You might find yourself light-headed these days. That’s because your body isn’t producing enough blood to fill your rapidly expanding circulatory system, which is gearing up to meet the needs of that other (little) body. Let your practitioner know if it happens a lot; otherwise, lie down as soon as you feel light-headed. If that’s not possible, then sit and bend as far forward as you can and put your head between your knees.

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Boy or Girl?!

Well today's ultrasound revealed one cute little baby growing inside! My little one is 0.88cm long now, developing the limbs and the heart is beating very nicely! I saw it! It is at 120bpm, mine is 59. Yeah, I have bradycardia due to fitness.

Anyways, so Little One's probably gonna be a girl, just something I am feeling, but we'll see.

Here's the Shettles predictor method.


Month 1

Wednesday 12th May 2010 - First day of your cycle

Friday 21st May 2010 - Best chance of conceiving a girl

Saturday 22nd May 2010 - A little bit fertile, best chance of conceiving a girl

Sunday 23rd May 2010 - Fertile, best chance of conceiving a boy

Monday 24th May 2010 - VERY fertile, best chance of conceiving a boy

Tuesday 25th May 2010 - Time to ovulate

Friday 4th June 2010 - A home pregnancy test may work now.

AimStrip pregnancy tests can detect your pregnancy 4 days before your period is due and costs up to 60% less than drugstore brands!

Buy some today so you will be ready to test when the time arrives!

Tuesday 8th June 2010 - End of cycle

Friday 11th June 2010 - No period? Maybe you're pregnant!

Wednesday 16th February 2011 - If you are, this is your approximate due date

http://www.babyhopes.com/ovulation-calendar.html

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Morning Sickness

Morning Sickiness doesn't affect me just in the morning, but all day long. I'm trying to eat, trying not to eat, whatever I do is just not enough to feel comforted in the belly. Nausea creeps along my daily jaunt like a shadow... woe, woe, and fie! just kidding on the bad attitude there, but seriously, what can i do?

I've started eating a few saltines and carrot juice. water does not help. sweet doesn't help at all. ignoring it REALLY doesn't help in fact it makes it much worse.

also, last few nights I've noticed that it's hard to lay down on the right side, it feels very uncomfortable. But most people have written not to lie on the left.. but for me it feels opposite.

Can't wait til Tuesday's ultrasound!

Wishlist

Baby Heartbeat Plush Toy $42, "Uncommon Goods" http://www.uncommongoods.com/item/item.jsp?itemId=18592&utm_medium=shopping+sites&utm_source=nextag&utm_campaign=18592

Moby Baby Wrap $40 new, under $20 used various sources, drugstore.com, amazon, etc.

http://www.drugstore.com:80/search/search_results.asp?N=0&Ntx=mode%2Bmatchallpartial&Ntk=All&srchtree=1&Ntt=moby+baby+wrap&Go.x=0&Go.y=0

Belly Bands in Black, navy, tan, grey.

foot massage


Tuesday, June 22, 2010

free stuff

start special email site for baby stuff only

Free Baby CD ROM
from TheBabyCD.com
http://www.thebabycd.com/ph/request-free-sample-cdrom.html

Free Pregnancy and Baby Wellness Kithttp://www.americanpregnancy.org/pregnancykit/
from the American Pregnancy Association. This kit provides tips for a healthy pregnancy, as well as coupons and product samples of pregnancy and baby related products.

Other Companies offering Free Newsletters and Goodies
Johnson and Johnson:
https://www.baby.com/global/register.aspx?source=signup42
Beechnut
Beechnut gives away a free bib when you sign up for their email newsletter
http://www.beechnut.com/bib/
Photoworks Photo Processing
Get 25 Free 4x6 Prints From PhotoWorks

Print Your Own Grocery Coupons
Here, you download a small utility for your printer and then, before you head to the store, just print off the coupons you need. It's awesome and saves lots of time (and, of course, money.)
http://print.coupons.com/alink.asp?go=12586hu3110

Coupon Codes:
I keep track of current coupon codes and discounts at our very favorite baby retailers and list them on my website. The complete list of coupon codes is here:http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes
and the list of baby related retailers is here:
From http://www.momscape.com/discounts/baby-items.htm

Of special note are the following:
Babies R Us Coupons
Baby Center Coupon Codes
Baby Store at Buy.com Good savings on joggers and strollers. (Buy.com Coupons are here).
Baby Universe Coupons
Children's Place Coupons
Old Navy Coupons.Old Navy has a Baby Boutique as well as a great Maternity Department.
One Step Ahead Coupons
Overstock.com Baby Center. (Overstock coupons are here)
Target Coupons
You can also subscribe to daily updates of new coupon codes here:http://www.momscape.com/subscribe.htm

Get a weekly update of all new coupon codes here: http://www.susies-coupons.com/subscribe.htm

And/or subscribe to Momscape's Weekly Update with coupon codes as well as articles and ideas for celebrating life with your children:http://www.momscape.com/subscribe.htm


Budgeting for Baby

OK, I was set to adopt, last year. But I didn't realize it costs so much to adopt. Also, my partner and I decided to just try and have our own.

Now, over a year later, here we are, barely 7 weeks, but oh so happy. To my great surprise, I am thinking about money. I thought I'd be preoccupied with thoughts about the classes I'm taking and how to rush my degree into existence. But nope, I'm thinking about money and how to save money. Save money and have kids? What?

So the first thing I decided was to stay where I live now, because it's pretty great actually. The second thing I'm thinking of cutting out unnecessary expenses. After I pay for this speeding ticket I got last month, I'll try and limit my use of the car to necessity. But it isn't easy being green. It's even less easy trying to imagine this life, here, alone. My sister and good friend lives on the opposite coast. But I have a few friends here, and fortunately they are mature, and all people can be helpful when truly in need. Like in the snowstorm, when some neighbor's father who was visiting from North Carolina loaned me his snow shovel. Wow, talk about nice. And this Spanish neighbor who helped my sister and I dig our car out of the snow, talk about good neighbors!

So you tell me why is it so easy to get sidetracked then from talking about money? Well, simple, I'm so grateful right now for this little blessing, that I tend to get all teary eyed over the smallest things.

One of the concerns I have is that I'll be going from Active Duty military to single mom at the same time. My partner is still active for a few more months, and until he comes to live with us, I'll be concerned about finances. Which I shouldn't be, but you see, I don't like to ask him for money. I've never really been dependent upon a man for my finances so it's hard to imagine this let alone practice that. But maybe I should consider it, ie. he pays an agreed amount every month, and then I have that one less concern.

I do have the option to continue with a GI Bill and go to school full time while getting my rent paid, and I will have a nice sum saved up as well. But that is something I don't want to touch if I don't have to; I've spent too much of my life without money that when I have it, I like to keep it saved. Plus, I don't believe a child who has every possession can be happy. It's more important to show children love, and to me the biggest important event of all is the child's education. I want my kid to be well-educated and cosmopolitan. Other than that I am not concerned with his daily needs being met, and also he must learn to pray and give thanks for what he has received. Our greatest gift is every the mercy of God, that we are alive (and healthy, etc.).

What has this to do with money?

OK.

Money. Right.

http://www.babycenter.com/0_the-real-cost-of-raising-a-baby_1744454.bc

unexpected expenses:
1. new car
2. new items for baby
3. surprise bills
4. new house to fit baby in house
5. new furniture for baby
6. formula expense when you expected to breast feed
7. medical insurance

cross off #2s 1, 2, 4, 5 and the rest we can approach.

To do:
1. Ask insurance about maternity and well-child benefits
2. check on state health insurance
3. health savings account which are tax-free from bank
4. do a financial planning session with the consultant (free)
5. No takeout!
6. Breast pump http://www.babycenter.com/0_choosing-a-breast-pump_429.bc
7. childcare
8. diapers (use cloth, buy washing machine, special soap, and small reusable items)
9. car seat http://www.babycenter.com/0_car-seat-safety-how-to-choose-and-use-a-car-seat_399.bc
10. make your own baby food (organic)
11. baby proofing your house (outlet cover, gates, attach dressers to wall)
12. make a new will, life insurance...


http://www.babycenter.com/0_staying-at-home-can-you-afford-it_6026.bc?page=3

The Diaper Situation

My mother used India cotton, probably prefolded diapers on my baby sister. I remember the diaper pins!

So here's a few links of pertinent value:

1) http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1013308 Here's the first useful part I found...

2) CLOTH DIAPERING ON A BUDGET looks awesome: http://www.the-cloth-diaper-connection.com/clothdiaperingonabudget.html

3) SEWING DIAPERS YOURSELF: http://www.diapersewing.com/

4) recommendations by one survey-mommy: http://allaboutclothdiapers.com/my-recommendations/

5) FRUGAL DIAPERING: http://www.clothdiaperfoundation.org/2010/01/frugal-cloth-diapering/



mom's tips of the day SUBJECT: LAUNDRY : use dreft or ivory soap (cheaper), get 2 dryer racks, 2 box fans. and have a portable washing machine ($100). Since all utilities are paid for you shouldn't worry too much about the water you use.